很多人对天蝎座的印象是爱憎分明，分手后会彻底切断所有联系，但实际情况并非如此，他们的联系欲往往和性格里的执念、长期形成的习惯绑定，不会轻易因为分手就抹去过往的痕迹，比如你们曾经一起生活过的空间、共用的日常物品，甚至是共同认识的朋友，都可能成为他找你的触发点。
天蝎座的占有欲不会随着感情的结束立刻消失，分手只是结束了情侣关系，却不会立刻消除那些已经养成的关心习惯，哪怕他已经不爱了，也会下意识关注你的近况,不会主动把你从生活里彻底剔除。
如果是和平分手，天蝎座找你多半是出于念旧的本能，没有复杂的意图，举个例子，之前和他一起养的金毛，分手后你把狗留在了自己身边，某天你发了狗在公园跑的视频，他会主动发消息问“这狗是不是又胖了”，这种问候只是因为习惯了关心狗，和想复合无关。
如果是闹掰分手，天蝎座找你可能是带着试探的心态，想确认自己的掌控感或者不甘心，比如他会问你最近换了什么工作、有没有新的朋友，其实是想知道你有没有过得比他好，这种联系往往带着不服输的试探,不是真心想和你复合。
如果你想彻底断联，就要明确表达自己的态度，不要给模糊的回应，天蝎座很擅长从细节里解读信号，模棱两哦还好吧会让他觉得你还有余地，进而反复找你，比如他找你聊无关紧要的你可以简单回应一以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以以